الخميس، 27 مارس، 2008

Choose Your Self




Once I heard an opinion which I admired so much:

A young girl was consulting about ending up with a guy she knows, she was insisting on continuing with relationship though it was obvious the relationship is no good for her any more.

The consultant advice was :
That most people thinks that if they could survive with a relationship even if it was hurting, they would be considered as fighters and have respect from others.

but what the one should consider in such cases is him/her self

yea, survive with your self; put your self as priority and do not let any body hurts you

It is not brave to keep the relationship while it is falling apart , the brave thing is to be honest with yourself and say: yea, I did a mistake and now I am gonna correct it, I won't go in this way any longer

But unfortunately this step requires a lot of effort and courage to do it , and how many people we know had this ability???

So to all people, please choose your self and do not lie to it, if you were in a middle of similar problem have courage and face situation.

Like a friend of mine says: The truth may hurts you, but at the end it will makes you feel much better

Have a nice day all

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هاااي
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بدك تعطيني اياه؟؟ ولا انتي مبرمجه كمان؟

مياسي يقول...

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هلأ بدي أروح بكره ان شالله بحط لك ياه و ع فكره أنا كمان مبرمجه لوول !!!

Sherif يقول...

Sometimes we just enjoy pain

out of altruism and sacrifice

In this way we feel we have more

power than selfishness

Would it mean more humanity ? I wonder

Interesting post

blackcairorose يقول...

Relationships are sometimes so complicated Miasy. I always see very messed up relationships that last long, and the two parties seem to "enjoy" it.

I firmly believe that no matter how accurate or proper the conditions of a healthy relationship should be, exceptions seem, many times, to work well and functioning!

مياسي يقول...

Sherif

I guess you are right , and as Bernard show sayed before " having a problem is half problem, not having a problem at all is the major problem
"

Thanx for ur passing

مياسي يقول...

blackcairorose

Yea it seems that exceptions are the rule of life , and I agree with you every relationship is special case related to people themselves before anything else

Thanx for ur visit